I tried to articulate this but you've done it better than I could have.
There's no justification or excuse for Mourinho's behaviour and he needs a lengthy ban.
The vacuum created by there being apparently no transparency or accountability for objectively poor refereeing contributes to this...
I disagree. It gets reported disproportionately when it's England fans. As just one example, France 98 I was at Germany v Croatia, with the Croatia fans, having bottles thrown at us pre-game. Post-match the centre of Lyon was closed while German fans rampaged despite a ban on alcohol sales and...