I'm fully aware of what happens on a dairy farm, they are NOT all the same and many have very high standards of animal welfare and husbandry. Its an industry with cattle as resources, that neither bothers me nor outrages me, I get that people like you don't like that and feel strongly about it...
Oh dear I wondered when the common vegan trope of referring to cows as mothers, calves as babies and throwing in the murder reference for good measure would make an appearance. It's an attempt to humanise cattle which are a food resource and bred entirely for that purpose. I'm surprised you...