Most normal, decent, people do not see 'being intimidating' as a positve character trait.
The need to indimidate others, and taking pleasure in doing so, is a sign of deep rooted insecurity and a weakness.
Hard as that is for some to understand.
I'm with Charlie Brooker on fashion.
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2007/apr/30/fashion.comment
'As far as I can tell, fashion is nothing more than a handy visual system that gives people with no personality some palpable criteria to judge each other by'