So if I were shy, and had liked Enid from the Post Office, from afar, but had gathered up the courage to ask her out on a date or send her a Valentine's Card I'm a pest?
What .... when did there always need to be an aggressor and a victim, why is there this constant need to feel ashamed or victimised?
If I walk up to a male or female and engage in conversation then that's fine, surely?
If I see someone I like and comment on their appearance then that's fine...
We are heading towards a very sterile vanilla society where you'll only communicate with those you know for fear of offending someone or worse. What a society we're blindly traipsing towards.