That's the trouble. Plenty of times I've spent hours of my time, or hours of my time and my hard earned money helping people out - and if the situation was reversed there's no way in hell they'd even think of doing the same for me. They'd just ignore my calls, pretend they were busy - or just...
Great thread.
I'm 48, but I've seen and done a lot - however I'm one of those half-wits who has to actually make a mistake and then learn from it...
So, here's what I've learnt - in no order whatsoever :
The loudest people are usually the most shy.
Your first instinct is the correct one...