It will get better but how long that takes is unknown. Be prepared for a bitter divorce, I was hoping mine could be amicable but my wife's demands made our mediator gasp.... You will hurt feir some time but it will get better, I have now met the girl I wish I had met 20 years ago.
It will be difficult, very difficult at times but you will get through it. Be prepared for the worst when it comes to the financial settlement, no matter how amicable it may seem she may well make ridiculous financial claims and use the kids as leverage against you. There are no depths she may...