This is so true. The fact that a team with ten men was allowed so much time and space in the final third was disgraceful. I pointed this out to my brother ten minutes before we conceded. It was excruciating to watch.
TBH, if we had won today it would have been an absolute mugging. Think of the chances Poco gave them, Stocko's saves and the clear cut penalty to them. The manner of the goal is devastating, but the result was fair.