Ordinary parcels the posties just leaves them by my back door, that's not a problem,
Understand your concern re ebays items, but that's what the feedback system is for.
I hate people like you, its ok of you got family members sitting at home all day. but if there all of the working fraternity it mean a regular Saturday morning to an awkward inaccessible collection office,
more often than not i let it get sent back to sender then ask them to not send it "signed for"