The Argus report seems to suggest he was winding Holloway up about the quality of the team.
http://www.theargus.co.uk/news/10577282.Fan_is_banned_for__winding_up__Crystal_Palace_boss/
This is what a Crawley fan posted on that thread. It doesn't sound like he was abusing Holloway's daughters.
During the match a Crawley supporter was doing his best to wind up Ian Holloway.
The supporter just happens to be the chairman of the Crawley Town supporters Alliance and was directly...