I've written a tribute to Tony here
Tony Grealish (1956-2013), Rest in Peace | The Goldstone Wrap
Please have a look.
I thought rool's post on this thread was rather lovely and have included it at the end.
When I went to high school, I remember the librarian told me the story of how her son had won a competition to win a day with some of the Brighton players. As part of the day, Tony Grealish took the young lad for drinks (juice, he assured her afterwards) in the bar! Well done, Tony. RIP.