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Bbig nuts reacted to Insel affe's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with
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Do not apologise You cannot legislate for how your children turn out, there obviously comes a point in some parents lives where they... -
Bbig nuts reacted to cjd's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
An incredibly brave post. It's good to see a balanced thread, despite yours being somewhat sad for one of your children. I have no...
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Bbig nuts reacted to BLOCK F's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
My wife and I always wanted children and discussed this shortly after we first started going out. We got engaged after going out for...
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Bbig nuts reacted to Gwylan's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
My kids played rugby rather than football but I loved watching them so much that I got my coaching qualifications the wrong side of 60...
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Bbig nuts reacted to Withdean11's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
Your only real purpose in life IMO. You'll never understand what you get out of it until it happens. Nothing could make me happier...
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Bbig nuts reacted to Commander's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
It's hard going the first few years, especially with a close age gap if you have more than one. It starts to get easier around 3-4. Once...
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Bbig nuts reacted to Insel affe's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
Like a few on here, I became a parent pretty late to the show. I always told myself if I do not have kids by the time I am 40 then I...
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Bbig nuts reacted to Comrade Sam's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
My wife and I had seen 40+ countries, bought a home and had stable jobs before having kids. I was just shy of 40 when we had the first...
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Bbig nuts reacted to Gwylan's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
This categorically isn't true. As someone pointed out earlier, the birth rate is about 1.5 (and falling) and should be 2.1 to sustain...
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Bbig nuts reacted to TWOCHOICEStom's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
I had kids relatively late. Hearing the constant stream of kid stuff coming from my friends was just maddening. "Ooh I just don't know...
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Bbig nuts reacted to BigBod's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
We left it late..Mrs was 40, me 41. Had over 20 years of partying and travelling the world and felt we needed a change but didn't know...
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Bbig nuts reacted to Super Steve Earle's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
Nothing will ever devalue or replace the love I have my children.
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Bbig nuts reacted to Iggle Piggle's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
You have to distinguish between different things as a parent. Is it an enjoyable - especially the first half dozen years - activity? Not...
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Bbig nuts reacted to DJ NOBO's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
Selfish in its purest form - as in living for oneself. nothing wrong with that. Eight years of it was enough for me though. As for...
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Bbig nuts reacted to Greg Bobkin's post in the thread [Misc] Is having kids more hassle than it's worth? with Like.
That's LITERALLY selfish. As in *reaches for dictionary* 'appealing to self-interest'. And that's fine. Being selfish doesn't always...