Father's Rights/Children

Maldini · May 22, 2016

I started this thread as perhaps there are fathers on here who are having problems seeing their kids and want help.So many fathers do not know where to turn to so perhaps on here fathers with their own experience can share some advice.I've been there and it's not nice but my situation was/is nowhere near as bad as many situations I've read.

So if you are having problems and want advice then post.

The Rivet · May 22, 2016

Herr Tubthumper, come back here and apologize. If you don't ANY weight of opinion you may have enjoyed on here will have been reduced to zero.

Maldini · May 22, 2016

The Rivet said:
Herr Tubthumper, come back here and apologize. If you don't ANY weight of opinion you may have enjoyed on here will have been reduced to zero.

He apologised to me for what it's worth.

He hasn't been where alot of father's have been so because of his ignorance he felt it ok to say what he said otherwise he would never in a million years.

nwgull · May 22, 2016

Herr Tubthumper said:
I can understand why she won't let you near them.

You sanctimonious ****.

The Rivet · May 22, 2016

Maldini said:
He apologised to me for what it's worth.

He hasn't been where alot of father's have been so because of his ignorance he felt it ok to say what he said otherwise he would never in a million years.

Fair enough but it would appear Herr Tubthumper isn't MAN enough to do it in public. SHAME on him!

Maldini · May 22, 2016

Don't want this thread to get sidetracked.

Herr Tubthumper · May 22, 2016

Beach Hut said:
That is a poorly worded comment unless you know something we don't

It was a very poorly thought out and crass attempt at humour. One which I regret. I apologise for any offence caused.

AmexRuislip · May 22, 2016

Maldini said:
Don't want this thread to get sidetracked.

http://www.fathers-4-justice.org/

The Rivet · May 22, 2016

Herr Tubthumper said:
It was a very poorly thought out and crass attempt at humour. One which I regret. I apologise for any offence caused.

Well done. It was the right thing.

Mellor 3 Ward 4 · May 22, 2016

Herr Tubthumper said:
It was a very poorly thought out and crass attempt at humour. One which I regret. I apologise for any offence caused.

At least you apologised for such a crass comment.

As a matter of interest, have you got children?

Shy Talk · May 22, 2016

Whatever you decide to do, keep in contact with your boys/girls and they will come back to you. Eventually !

The Rivet · May 22, 2016

Any father in this difficult situation should not worry about turning 'Mr Detective'. I have been falsely accused of threatened violence because it 'helped' my ex's argument. Take precautions as that will more than likely make the difference. If you are not married you MUST obtain a 'parental guardian' form and a judgement in your favour giving you parental rights.

Soulman · May 22, 2016

Maldini said:
I started this thread as perhaps there are fathers on here who are having problems seeing their kids and want help.So many fathers do not know where to turn to so perhaps on here fathers with their own experience can share some advice.I've been there and it's not nice but my situation was/is nowhere near as bad as many situations I've read.

So if you are having problems and want advice then post.

My advice was given through my experience. There are a lot of good Dads (and some bad but then they would not be bothered if they were stopped access, but this thread is not about them) that really do have the children used as weapons against them. Luckily although financially the Dad has little choice, he does have a say in contact and information such as schoolwork and illness/doctors reports.

GoldWithFalmer · May 22, 2016

Herr Tubthumper said:
It was a very poorly thought out and crass attempt at humour. One which I regret. I apologise for any offence caused.

I normally when flying very close to the wind use a :jester:

followed by a :kiss:

that's my way of doing it not right nor wrong,just my way..

Soulman · May 22, 2016

Shy Talk said:
Whatever you decide to do, keep in contact with your boys/girls and they will come back to you. Eventually !

Indeed, my eldest moved in with me when he reached the age.

Beach Hut · May 22, 2016

Herr Tubthumper said:
It was a very poorly thought out and crass attempt at humour. One which I regret. I apologise for any offence caused.

Accepted, it takes a bigger man to apologise

symyjym · May 23, 2016

Maldini said:
I started this thread as perhaps there are fathers on here who are having problems seeing their kids and want help.So many fathers do not know where to turn to so perhaps on here fathers with their own experience can share some advice.I've been there and it's not nice but my situation was/is nowhere near as bad as many situations I've read.

So if you are having problems and want advice then post.

Why didn't you say this when you started the thread?

Peteinblack · May 23, 2016

The legal rights or otherwise is one aspect of contact, but in my case, my ex did not directly try to stop me seeing my daughters, she simply poisoned them against me (and Mrs Peteinblack) so that they would not want to visit me/us.

They were brainwashed that 'daddy is a ******* who is now with someone else' - notwithstanding that I got together with Mrs Peteinblack 4 years after splitting up with the mother of my two daughters - and so they were brought up to hate me by their bitch of a mother. Even if I'd gone to court to demand access/contact, the girls would have been primed to say 'we don't want to see dad.'

We even got nuisance phone calls from them for a couple of years - doubtless their mother putting them up to it out of sheer nastiness.

As far as the mother was concerned, my only role was to pay child support via the CSA, which I did conscientiously until the girls left full-time education, but I have not seen them or had any contact (apart from the nuisance phone calls) for about 15 years.

Redundant Gigolo · May 23, 2016

Herr Tubthumper said:
It was a very poorly thought out and crass attempt at humour. One which I regret. I apologise for any offence caused.

Fair play.

Tyrone Biggums · May 23, 2016

Just go on the Jeremy Kyle show so we can all watch.

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