Gabbafella
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- Aug 22, 2012
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Remembers minute details and picks you up on them? Sounds like you've got yourself a regular female there.
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[Help] Advice required - Dating a “Lateral thinker”
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Southern Scouse
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- Jul 21, 2011
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Thanks.... actually watching The Bridge ......
Definitely worth effort....
Having been married for over 25 years.... this is a little different but thanks for the comments
Definitely worth effort....
Having been married for over 25 years.... this is a little different but thanks for the comments
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Sounds you're dating Alexa...
Uncle C
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Nope. Alexa is one of the few 'women' you can tell to shut her gob and she does. All this without sulking.
Aveacarlin'
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AmexRuislip
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Women have brains 
Southern Scouse
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No, that’s a good question! I work in the NHS, I notice it. She mentions it’s just her thing, but I don’t think she rationalises it.
In truth, it doesn’t matter, I’m just worried I’ll balls it up. Maybe in the future I could bring it up ��
I spent 4 years with someone like that. I had to leave in the end. Nothing good can come of it.
Hampster Gull
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- Dec 22, 2010
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God yes. Utter oddball though she is, she is visually appealing and even her personality has a strange attraction. I love Saga.
As soon as I read the OP that's what I thought
I think you did it on purpose to take the piss out of her.
Sounds like you’re trying to make something work that isn’t meant to work.
Trust your instincts.
Deep down ,you know the right thing to do is gently sack her off .
Southern Scouse
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Oh bloody hell..... the s*it has really hit the fan in SS’s latest search for love...
Mods.... could you please delete this thread...... I really mean, pretty please.
Mods.... could you please delete this thread...... I really mean, pretty please.
Taybha
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Don't you dare delete this thread , i can see a happy ending , obviously after 200 pages of NSC invaluable advice .
Simple answer. Dump her. Not worth dating anyone who is a hassle to be with. Only likely to get worse. Lots of fish in the sea.
brakespear
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That's what you think - she's secretly ordering £5000 worth of fertiliser be delivered to your front room
Bevendean Hillbilly
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If se really does have a photographic memory you'd better be prepared to have every mistake you make being raked up in every argument from now until your dying day.
Of course it sounds like she is on the spectrum but, having been with a range of women from all different classes, backgrounds, IQs and temperament I can say with confidence that ALL of them have issues from full on mental illness to emotional instability, you just have to decide what level of lunacy is acceptable.
My dad use to say "son, no matter how good she looks, no matter how much you fancy her...remember that somebody somewhere has had to put up with her shit"
Of course it sounds like she is on the spectrum but, having been with a range of women from all different classes, backgrounds, IQs and temperament I can say with confidence that ALL of them have issues from full on mental illness to emotional instability, you just have to decide what level of lunacy is acceptable.
My dad use to say "son, no matter how good she looks, no matter how much you fancy her...remember that somebody somewhere has had to put up with her shit"
Albion_Dave
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If you're worried about every little thing you say then it really isn't worth it.
Sounds like she has some deep rooted issues that aren't going to go away anytime soon i'm afraid.
Sounds like she has some deep rooted issues that aren't going to go away anytime soon i'm afraid.