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Morning!
Morning! I like your dress.
Oh, uhm, thank you, i suppose.
Yes, I really like the way it makes your thighs look. And by that I mean ( mimes an hourglass figure with hands) your general body shape.
Yeah, AS, you got this
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- Thread starter The Clamp
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Morning!
Morning! I like your dress.
Oh, uhm, thank you, i suppose.
Yes, I really like the way it makes your thighs look. And by that I mean ( mimes an hourglass figure with hands) your general body shape.
Yeah, AS, you got this
bWize
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- Nov 6, 2007
- 1,683
Morning!
Morning! I like your dress.
Oh, uhm, thank you, i suppose.
Yes, I really like the way it makes your thighs look. And by that I mean ( mimes an hourglass figure with hands) your general body shape.
Yeah, AS, you got this
Except you have taken everything out of context to try and suit an agenda. You are boring. Have a good afternoon!
surlyseagull
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- Aug 23, 2008
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Agree totally its best to not say anything and just go through life treating every woman the same as every man ….ask them what barbers they go too and who does their beard and that their ass does actually look fkin huge in that dress .
But of course if your female co-workers said that you had a nice suit or shirt or you were nice looking that would be fine.
But of course if your female co-workers said that you had a nice suit or shirt or you were nice looking that would be fine.
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- #64
Your words mate. You've been owned. Take it as an education. Yes, goodbye. Enjoy your flounce.
Who was it in The Office, big fat lad who ate the scotch egg? That's you right?
Thunder Bolt
Silly old bat
As my Dad used to say, there's a time and a place. Strangers in the street, public transport and in the workplace is not the place.
Praise women on their appearance in a bar, at a party, a nightclub, casino, etc.
bWize
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- Nov 6, 2007
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Oh dear, you really are quite a specimen. Sad little person.
Thunder Bolt
Silly old bat
When your posts descend into personal abuse, you have lost the plot.
Then, of course that's fine. In the case in question though, one of the parties was not ok with it.
surlyseagull
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- Aug 23, 2008
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Showing of your curves and shape of your dick is not a great example of a duplicate remark imo
Exactly, it's all about context. If you worked with a load of Jennifer Aniston/Kylie type middle aged birds then you'd LOVE the compliment. "Please! Think of me as whatever you want!!!! In fact just notice that I exist!!!". [emoji23]
This reminds me of my favourite story ever. My soon to be wife was working for a recruitment firm in the city centre. As per in that industry she was one of many attractive 20s/30s women in the office and one Friday afternoon one of them said "Look! Look at this bloke...".
They all went to the window and were drooling over this tall blonde guy in a black suit and sunglasses who was walking past. "Ooh look at his arse" "I'd do him" "Get me his number" and other such sexist objectification.
My Mrs laughed and said "Actually, that's my fiance".
She said she should never have told me, but as she did I basked in the glory of it for ages. You've gotta take any ego boost you can get when they're so few and far between.... [emoji25]
Arthur
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Not true. I have a friend who met her husband pretty much exactly like that.
Thunder Bolt
Silly old bat
But a great demonstration of making a man feel as uncomfortable as women sometimes feel. The HR director was being questioned as to why they held up a complaint, so demonstrating the point was instructive to the other males.
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Any man who had been raised in the correct fashion should know he must wait for the office christmas party to harass the women at work. Manners innit.
And you believed her? Bless.
Mind you, the fact she was prepared to stroke your ego like that means she's a keeper.
Ha ha! If only you knew my Mrs. Ego massaging is not her, hence why she said she wished she hadn't told me. [emoji23]And you believed her? Bless.
Mind you, the fact she was prepared to stroke your ego like that means she's a keeper.
- Jan 3, 2012
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Male employee goes to HR and complains that a female colleague is making him feel uncomfortable and embarrassed, because her tight dress is blatantly sexual and unsuitable for the workplace.
How is a poor fellow meant to concentrate on the Laffer curve and figures on his spreadsheet when instead, he is really thinking about said female colleague and images of female curves and bedsheets are coming into his mind?
Then HR/management go to said female employee and ask her to dress more appropriately for the workplace...…… perfectly sensible and straightforward.
surlyseagull
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- Aug 23, 2008
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Using lewd language was not an example of what was said beforehand so pretty unprofessional by the HR imo , the point of the meeting surely was to discuss what happened between two co workers not to make the other males feel instructed and guilty over something they had no hand in or would have.
I would have been extremely angry and upset if I was in that meeting and comments like that were aired for mine and other males benefit so as we could be educated for future reference. So I will agree to disagree
Blimey, what a delicate flower you must be!
Mine was meant to be a light-hearted comment, David.
Good job 'busty barmaids' weren't quite so sensitive in their workplace, back in the day!