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hitony

Administrator
Jul 13, 2005
16,284
South Wales (im not welsh !!)
Thank you to everyone, the messages do help, I've been talking to my wife a lot all day and we take some comfort from the fact he is not in any pain and is at peace, again thank you to you all :thumbsup:
 




spence

British and Proud
Oct 15, 2014
9,814
Crawley
Thank you to everyone, the messages do help, I've been talking to my wife a lot all day and we take some comfort from the fact he is not in any pain and is at peace, again thank you to you all :thumbsup:

Get a memorial stone for him at the Amex
 


Foul Play Rocks

Well-known member
Feb 23, 2013
5,180
Very sorry to hear your news. As others have said, we’re all here to give you some help and support if you want it.
 


Herr Tubthumper

Well-known member
NSC Patron
Jul 11, 2003
59,633
The Fatherland
What terrible news. Really sorry to hear this. Positive vibes and thoughts from HT.
 






Spicy

We're going up.
Dec 18, 2003
6,038
London
Sincere condolences and deepest sympathy, hitony, to you and your family.
 


Icy Gull

Back on the rollercoaster
Jul 5, 2003
72,015
Really feel for you hitony, I have lost a couple of close family members over the Xmas period. Such sad news.
 


Albion my Albion

Well-known member
NSC Patron
Feb 6, 2016
17,973
Indiana, USA
As of now Christ-day will be tainted and for many years it will be a hard day. But as time wears on there will be a Christ-day that you can recollect the great times you had with your brother and how you can remember him by toasting to his memory or having a place setting at the table for him and remembering some of the joy you had together. It doesn't have to be a bad Christ-day always and you can learn to enjoy it again. But for now and the next few years it's okay to feel the pain on Christ-day.
 






Durlston

"Garlic bread!?"
NSC Patron
Jul 15, 2009
9,765
Haywards Heath
I don't know what to say. I'm so sorry for your loss, Hitony. I hope in time the pain will heal. Focus on the people around you at the moment and talk about all the fun times you had with him. I know that sounds hollow right now but in time it will help your grieving. I've always found you to be a great person on here.

Thoughts and condolences with you and your family at this difficult time.
 


sydney

tinky ****in winky
Jul 11, 2003
17,754
town full of eejits
At 12.55 today I was happily playing with my 3 year old extremely excited Grandson, Christmas is all about kids in my opinion, we were at my Daughters in Cardiff celebrating Christmas Day.......... my mobile rang, I was informed my Brother had passed away less than 20 minutes before, I won't deny I am heartbroken, we went through so much together back in our Brighton days, Brighton always bought back so many incredible memories for both of us, I now know when someone says they are "Broken" how they feel...........sorry to dampen the day, but I feel ****ing crap!!!

sorry to hear that mate....i have lost 2 reasonably close people in the last 6 weeks but to lose your brother must be really painful....i am sorry for your sad loss at such a family orientated time of year...
 






spongy

Well-known member
Aug 7, 2011
2,764
Burgess Hill
Really sorry to hear this. This place can be wonderful for support. Make sure you use it if you need to.
 






Harry Wilson's tackle

Harry Wilson's Tackle
NSC Patron
Oct 8, 2003
50,200
Faversham
I hope you can feel all the warmth of people's replies. Stay strong. My sincere condolences.
 


Westdene Seagull

aka Cap'n Carl Firecrotch
NSC Patron
Oct 27, 2003
21,032
The arse end of Hangleton
Awful news at anytime let alone Christmas. My condolences to you Hitony and your family. It does seem to happen at key dates. My grandfather passed away on my brothers 18th birthday. Not that it will bring your brother back but enjoy the time with your grandson - a perfect example of the circle of life.
 
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Hyperion

New member
Nov 1, 2010
5,314
At 12.55 today I was happily playing with my 3 year old extremely excited Grandson, Christmas is all about kids in my opinion, we were at my Daughters in Cardiff celebrating Christmas Day.......... my mobile rang, I was informed my Brother had passed away less than 20 minutes before, I won't deny I am heartbroken, we went through so much together back in our Brighton days, Brighton always bought back so many incredible memories for both of us, I now know when someone says they are "Broken" how they feel...........sorry to dampen the day, but I feel ****ing crap!!!

So so sorry to hear of your terrible news, i can’t imagine what you’re going through. My thoughts are with you and your family.
 


DIFFBROOK

Really Up the Junction
Feb 3, 2005
2,266
Yorkshire
So sorry to hear. Hopefully the very fine words spoken by many on here will help you through these dark days.


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