Hi, I am in the unfortunate situation of my wife of 10 years telling me she wants us to divorce. It's hit me like a train because I didn't think things were that bad and there has been not adultery or abuse. We've got a pretty normal relationship. We've got a house and two kids together, no savings of significance as all our money went into the house. I haven't moved out, just into the spare room and I have no intentions of leaving, even though I really want to.
I was wondering if anyone has any advice they can give me? Do's and do not's? I don't want to screw things up for myself by making wrong choices at this early stage. Any helpful advice is appreciated.