Regards the possibiity of Bennett looking to cash in on the land - there is some kind of covenant on it isn't there, dictating that it cannot ever be built on?
I imagine that they do expect to be 'treated better than the rest' in so far as they expect to recieve the things that they have paid (extra) for - priority parking, nice lounge, quick access to a bar / toilets, etc. Apart from that, I'd imagine they are there to watch the footaball, like the...
But you were 'banned' from the Amex, for having your say when they wanted to search your bag, and bought season tickets for you and your Dad at Selhurst, instead. Have you forgotten that?