I thank you for your reply.
The thread was clearly titled as ; FAO; The Divorced of NSC.
I responded to this original request with three statements............all of which are repeated throughout this thread.
Your advice....hmmmmmm.......not so much eh ?
Although this forum has views...
Probably ( IMHO) the best post on this thread.
If the dad has no home, no money, no hope it doesn't help the kids.
2nd piece of advice; Take no notice of idiots who claim to be happily married for the last 5 zillion years, suggesting you keep trying to resurrect a dead relationship. Total...