Where on earth did anything I say come across as appeasing them? Just pointing out that you have to think of the outcome of your actions. No point doing something to make you feel better if it actually makes the situation worse.
Forced out to where? And when they go there do you think they'd just take up flower arranging, or do you think they might target the people that did this to them.
I understand people are angra#y, but just lashing out with no thought of the consequences will only make things worse.