Mediation can help sort these things out. Get a seperation agreement drawn up. With my ex-wife I agreed to let her buy me out of my share of the house at a hugely discounted value and with her re-mortgaging to pay for it. That gave me a deposit for my new place. My best advice is do not go into...
A whole host of things here and I'll also send you advice via PM.
> Ask why she feels like this. There must be a reason. ( details as to why I know this in my PM )
> Do not leave the house
> I'm not a fan of family law solicitors - some can give balanced advice but most don't. If Mrs CS does...