Guys - I'd like to thank each and everyone of you for taking time to post on this thread (and also the PM's) - it really does mean a lot.
Reading a lot of the posts on here has emphasised my initial thoughts that it was going to be tough emotionally, but knowing there's light at the end of the...
If you don't mind me asking, and it's not too personal to share - at what stage did you tell your daughter i.e. right at the beginning, when one of you left the house etc.?
At the moment she's with her Mum in the evenings, coming back first thing in the morning to do the kids school run etc...
Thanks for the replies all - some really sound advice in there.
If there was any way back - I'd have taken it - but I let things get too far beyond repair to realise what was happening, and fix it.
That's a given! I always used to drink (never to point of violence/abuse/nastiness) as a...
Apologies for the Mumsnet style post here, but after some thoughts/advice from likeminded folk.
Bit of background first...
Just split up with the wife after nearly 14 years together (8+ years married). Hurts like hell at the moment, and the thought of now having to live my life without her is...