The bottom line is the club has to make the decisions. Sometimes they 'feel' fair. Other times they don't. And different supporters have different views about them. But it's the club's job to make the decisions. I don't think it is remotely fair to say 'we' (the club) are 'not really thinking...
As someone who also teaches, I felt uncomfortable snapping at some first year uni students for talking at the start of one of my lectures recently. Afterwards, to my delight, several students thanked me for creating an atmosphere where they could focus. Separately, the natterers, mortified...