i am probably not being clear, the downside of tapping out quickly on an iPad. Once you have posted something online you are no longer in control. The recipient can make public, or a hacker, or the controller of the data like the host etc. The sender should always assume it could go public and...
I think you have every right to post that here. No one should post anything online, eg a PM, that they are not comfortable to be made public. Transparency is king in most areas