Why don't you tell him and her to get off their arses and start looking for work. Unless in fact they are, in which case what's the problem (other than you being screwed on housing, which is an issue that needs addressing)?
Nobody is walking you anywhere. You are going of your own accord.
My plea to you is to consider carefully how UKIP will damage our country in the long run. Countries do business with the UK because we are both independently strong and we are open for trade with the EU. Closing that down is not...