You are trying to sound reasonable now. Your initial posts were very unreasonable. 'The biggest toilet in Sussex'. That doesn't sound very adult or likely to cause mature discussion.
I moved from Seaford to Liverpool and lived there 14 years. Now I live in Eastbourne and the contrast could not be more stark as you say. Anyone can have trouble anywhere, but to compare Worthing, which is a similarly good town to Eastbourne, with a big city such as London, Manchester or...