If it was never actually offered in the first place, and it was token gesture of gratitude, how can you complain about it being taken away? I believe Paul's response was justified. I would agree with you that if Park and ride, or the travel allowance had been taken after I signed up I would...
Don't know what the fuss over tea and coffee is all about really. 1901 receive far greater benefits than non-members. Frankly, if you can afford 1901 membership, you can afford a bleeding cup of tea at half time!