I had read your posts yes and that was the inference I took from them. Apologies if I've read them incorrectly.
Why can't the reason just be "some people are homophobic pricks" ?
Quick question: why are you so intent on making it this poor chaps own fault that he got abuse? That he just must have had done something to warrant it?
Also, on the whole "Does your boyfriend" chant, I've often wondered how well it would be received if we were to have a banner at away games, or home games for that matter, stating
"Yes, our boyfriends, girlfriends, wives and husbands know we're here"
One is mocking someone for their sexual preference whilst the other is a statement on someone's ability.
If it was "You're SHIT AAAAAAAGH because you're gay" then it'd be a problem.
You mean that people don't have to mock others for their skin colour, over which they have no choice, or for which genitalia they prefer, over which they also have no choice ?
Madness, it'll never catch on.