Tough news to get but focus on the positives as much as possible (and there are some in that news), stay strong for your family and take each step in turn. It's hard but try not to get too far ahead of yourself with the worries about what might be. You are in the best care and they will sort this.
Feel for you buddy. My wife had stage 3 grade 3 breast cancer, 6 years or so ago - mastectomy, 8 rounds of chemo, radiotherapy. Our kids were 4 and 6. A few thoughts:
- Others may take different approaches but I felt my job was to keep everything moving for the family, be positive, measured and...