Imho you’re doing all the right things, optimising the skill and guidance of multiple experts as early as possible. Inertia would only have given a less favourable prognosis.
As always, all the best to your wife.
Needless to say @US Seagull good luck to your wife and a collective love from this neck of the woods.
You’ve done a good thing for you imho by vocalising your emotions just now.
As for your daughter, simply carry on being a great parent and gently check on her throughout, digging deeper if you...