Would it sound really weird to say I was thinking about you both this morning? I don't know what any of it means but it's really good that they are checking everything. Take each day as it comes.
I'm sorry (esp to US Seagull), but I'm going to disagree with you with some of this. Yes Dr Google can be a charlatan & a fraud but your wife 'has' probably become an oncology expert! It was her cancer, it is her body.
I'm not suggesting for one moment to ignore the experts and seek...
Firstly don't feel guilty for your mind going into overdrive, you've both had a big shock. It's completely 100% normal to worry about the worse case scenario and the 'what ifs' & what it would mean for you all. However, you can't let yourself get into a loop of 'what if'. You've said your wife...