Can't really say much more than this. At least it wasn't total bad news, but it's obviously very easy for me to say 'take the positives'. Appreciate this must be a bad time for you all.
Don't apologise, rant away, let off steam, we all know you're going through hell and if posting on here (and reading the responses) helps just one tiny bit then keep doing it.
That is truly shit news, and like everyone else I extend my very best wishes and hopes for the future..
And like some others I can only offer you a tiny tiny crumb of comfort. About fifteen years ago my Mum, then in her mid-70s, found a cancerous lump in her left breast. Her mum, my Nan, had...