A fear of cancer is not great and the thought of all the procedures that ensue are not better.
I found the best thing was to take things one step at a time and try not to get bogged down with the info.
I hope all goes well :)
For starters you've got past the first hurdle in talking about cancer, and I admire that, as some people ate reluctant to chat about it.
I cannot offer any advice to you, only that is to be as positive and supportive as you can, for your wife and daughter, not at least for yourself.
Because it...