I don't see how you think you are not in the wrong. You have a small business and are leaving waste in a shared drive. Many people along with your neighbour see this as a violation of law. Unless there is something you are not telling us.
Are you not by Village law officially in the wrong? I think you have to stop trying to talk yourself into the fact that you aren't in the wrong and breaking the law and face the fact that your neighbour could get the authorities involved and you could even receive a citation.