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Clearly he will decide himself. But other people may have had experiences that appeal to him. By your 'logic', nobody should ever seek advice from anyone else, about anything at all.
When people give me advice, I act on it if it suits me. And I am grateful for their input even if it...
I would not fancy a road trip with three kids of that age - too young to understand what they are seeing, too likely to have a meltdown with long days travelling. I'd do the West coast of America, by train.