Yes, couldn't agree more. What refs also forget is that fans have paid to see the match. A lot of games are spoiled by a needless red card. In t'olden days, a sending off was a rare event. I still think that should be the case. Two minor fouls (the second one probably not even a foul) shouldn't...
Interesting to see the Man City v West Ham game yesterday. Masuaku got an early deserved yellow card and then committed two further fouls clearly worthy of a second booking but Andre Marriner just lectured him both times, obviously reluctant to send him off as it would spoil the game. I wish...