On a serious note, I like to think that I'm a decent bloke and I take no pleasure whatsoever in upsetting my wife. The problem I had was that she had absolutely no concept of how important of how it was for me to be there day. That's not her fault - trying to explain to her why my club means so...
I was due to be at the wedding of my then girlfriend's (now my wife) best friend in the arse end of Wales on the day Grimsby were due to travel to Burton Albion in a game which would decide if our 100 year league status would come to an end. The date, 8th May 2010, hadn't meant anything to me...