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I once got up, a bit hungover, and set off for work in Worthing. Traffic was quite light and it dawned on me somewhere along Old Shoreham Road that it was Sunday.
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[Humour] Middle aged absent-mindedness
- Thread starter Green Cross Code Man
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- Jul 10, 2003
- 25,876
The week before last I was with 5 mates (4 of us in our 60s, two in 70s) on a skiing trip. It was the fourth day before we managed to get to the boot room in the hotel without someone having to go back for something they had forgotten.
This is definitely true. My kids bought me a wine tasting day, I forgot how to drive
This is definitely true. My kids bought me a wine tasting day, I forgot how to drive
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Easy 10
Brain dead MUG SHEEP
I had a COMPLETE panic meltdown on holiday last year. The doris had gone down to the pool to get the sun loungers, whilst I pottered about in the room having a shower and getting ready. We were flying home the next day, so I got the carrycase out, just to check the passports were in the usual little zip-up pocket I keep them in. I looked inside - no passports. EHH ? Panic stations. I checked all the drawers, my pockets, the bedside cabinets, dressing table, everywhere, but no sign of them.
So I got dressed and scurried downstairs in a cold sweat, trying to think what I'd have to do. Apply for emergency ones ? Visit the consulate ? It all looked like being a gigantic ballache that would ruin the end of the holiday. So I find her by the pool, she's there gassing away with some old crusty. I'm hopping about trying to tell her about the disaster that had befallen us. Eventually there's a tiny break in the conversation, so I butt in.
"I can't find the passports. The f*cking passports are gone"
"They're in the safe aren't they ?"
"......."
Yup. 10 days earlier, I had dutifully locked them in the hotel room safe. I had TOTALLY forgot about this, and in my panic rushing round the room, it literally had not even occurred to me to check the safe. In fact, my brain had erased all memory of us even having one. The feeling of relief was so intense it was almost worth the panic attack. Almost.
My brain is an absolute arsehole at times.
So I got dressed and scurried downstairs in a cold sweat, trying to think what I'd have to do. Apply for emergency ones ? Visit the consulate ? It all looked like being a gigantic ballache that would ruin the end of the holiday. So I find her by the pool, she's there gassing away with some old crusty. I'm hopping about trying to tell her about the disaster that had befallen us. Eventually there's a tiny break in the conversation, so I butt in.
"I can't find the passports. The f*cking passports are gone"
"They're in the safe aren't they ?"
"......."
Yup. 10 days earlier, I had dutifully locked them in the hotel room safe. I had TOTALLY forgot about this, and in my panic rushing round the room, it literally had not even occurred to me to check the safe. In fact, my brain had erased all memory of us even having one. The feeling of relief was so intense it was almost worth the panic attack. Almost.
My brain is an absolute arsehole at times.
Slightly OT but this happened to one of our group on a golf trip. We ended up in a certain bar (probably well known to those who have been to Vilamoura) and he ended up taking a girl back to the hotel. When a group of us walked back we found his roommate in the hotel gardens sat on a bench, fully dressed but with his pyjamas on under his clothes (the other the guy wanted the room - obviously - and asked him to make himself scarce even though he’d already gone to bed). He was offered a sofa in someone else’s room for the night. The following morning the guy came down to the breakfast room and looked deeply disturbed……told us the girl had stolen his passport and money and disappeared in the night. He said he’d turned the room upside down into a right mess but couldn‘t find his stuff, so would have to miss golf that day and go and get a passport sorted etc. It was at that point man in PJs reached into his pocket, took out a passport and wad of cash and said ’here you go, you gave it to me to look after last night when you chucked me out of the room when you brought that tart back’.
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Jack Straw
I look nothing like him!
It was at that point I realised what I hadn't done. I was so close to getting in to the pool!Had you had the recommended shower before getting to the poolside?
- Aug 8, 2005
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Last Florida holiday I walked back from Magic Kingdom to our hotel in the blazing heat.
That is my excuse for pushing our 3 year old into the right resort but wrong hotel building, then persuading the cleaning lady to let me in to my room (the wrong room!) because the key card didn't work. I walked right into the room before realising my mistake after a brief "this looks tidy" moment. At that point I heard a panicked male voice shout "hello" from the bathroom. The real resident of that room was in the bath. I still shudder at the potential scene we could have seen but him appearing with a towel wrapped around him was enough of a shock. Fortunately he was good natured and amused probably due to me having just pushed a 3 year old in her buggy, sorry stroller, into his room. And presumably his gun was not within reach.
My family remind me of this frequently.
I blame the heat, they blame my age.
I also blame the cleaner, and the Disney policy of all buildings on a resort looking the same inside.
But it was probably my age...
That is my excuse for pushing our 3 year old into the right resort but wrong hotel building, then persuading the cleaning lady to let me in to my room (the wrong room!) because the key card didn't work. I walked right into the room before realising my mistake after a brief "this looks tidy" moment. At that point I heard a panicked male voice shout "hello" from the bathroom. The real resident of that room was in the bath. I still shudder at the potential scene we could have seen but him appearing with a towel wrapped around him was enough of a shock. Fortunately he was good natured and amused probably due to me having just pushed a 3 year old in her buggy, sorry stroller, into his room. And presumably his gun was not within reach.
My family remind me of this frequently.
I blame the heat, they blame my age.
I also blame the cleaner, and the Disney policy of all buildings on a resort looking the same inside.
But it was probably my age...
sussex_guy2k2
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- Jun 6, 2014
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I’ve realised, as I approach middle age, that there’s just a lot I don’t care about anymore. That’s why stuff like this happens. It’s because my brain just doesn’t register it as important 
cjd
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I comfortably complete my 10,000 steps a day by having to return to where I started so I remember why I went to the other room. Always a positive somewhere .
Thought I was having some sort of head seizure while in the shower a few months ago: vision went blurry, all misty then wavy, I felt so dizzy and therefore light headed. I thought I was going to faint so I turned off the shower and got out.
Then I realised I'd gone in with my glasses on
Then I realised I'd gone in with my glasses on
Your colleague is very wise.
How do we know this though?? He may actually have worn jeans correctly - but gone to the wrong place to work!
But this may simply be because your mind is working so much overtime on writing detailed and complex posts on here that it has no capacity left for 'normal' stuff!I’m beyond repair.
- Keep setting the fire alarms off because I forget I’ve put something under the grill
- Went to work in my gardening clumpy rubber crocs a few weeks back (they were so comfortable)
- Repeatedly putting things down and can’t find them for ages - cups of coffee, ear buds, glasses (spend ridiculous amounts of time looking for my damn glasses when half the time they are on my head)
- Turning up for work on days I’m supposed to be off
- Forgetting what day of the week it is
- Getting on the wrong train
- Forgetting appointments I’ve made
(not a criticism of your posts by the way)
I’m just interested to know what sort of job you do that won’t allow you to wear jeans?I seem to be suffering a strong bout of this at the moment. Today I congratulated myself for being up and about in good time and arrived at work early. Found a decent parking place, strode confidently from the car and then realised I had my jeans on.
Had to drive home, change and then do the process all over again.
Anyone else suffering this, I suppose it'll only get worse from here on in?
- Oct 20, 2022
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Ah that’s the neurodivergent thing at war with brain fog spreading into the corners of my mind like 1950s pea-souper - and getting worse so brace yourself for long, complex gobbledygook - there is no normal stuff anymore (at least not in Norfolk)
Jimmy Come Lately
Registered Loser
Urgh, yes. I tried to get on the 14:20 high-speed train from Milano Centrale to Roma Termini with a ticket for the 14:30 high-speed train from Milano Centrale to Roma Termini. I mean, I partly blame the Italian rail network for having too many fast and convenient services but that's not the sort of detail that I usually get wrong.
Age 47 and I'm starting to wonder how long I'll safely be able to look after myself on holiday. Still, this professor reckons that forgetfulness is a good thing, although I read the article this morning and I now can't remember what the justification was: https://www.theguardian.com/books/2024/mar/25/the-big-idea-why-am-i-so-forgetful
Is it PotG?
Thrifty non-licker
Arthur Conan Doyle - A Study in Scarlet:
I consider that a man's brain originally is like a little empty attic, and you have to stock it with such furniture as you choose. A fool takes in all the lumber of every sort that he comes across, so that the knowledge which might be useful to him gets crowded out, or at best is jumbled up with a lot of other things, so that he has a difficulty in laying his hands upon it. Now the skillful workman is very careful indeed as to what he takes into his brain-attic. He will have nothing but the tools which may help him in doing his work, but of these he has a large assortment, and all in the most perfect order. It is a mistake to think that that little room has elastic walls and can distend to any extent. Depend upon it there comes a time when for every addition of knowledge you forget something that you knew before. It is of the highest importance, therefore, not to have useless facts elbowing out the useful ones.
A mex eyecan
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- Nov 3, 2011
- 3,317
that’s nothing to worry about, wait until like me you walk into a room and then cant remember how to get back out
Going back a few years I had returrned to work after being off a few months . The computer system had changed so my mind was working overtime. I went to the office toilets and had a pee . I turned around to find the sink and could not see the taps. I then realised that I had peed in the sink. Luckily no one came in!
One of our group, you say?
That old memory fade can come in awfully handy sometimes. Innit.
Green Cross Code Man
Wunt be druv
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